@Gabz Yep exactly! The turning point for me was admitting that the whole platform is compromised; to get any chance of a healthy state on there you must put in a lot of difficult work (with settings, etc) and even then it is unlikely those changes will work reliably.

The people who are in control of the platform have no reason at all to improve this situation and so life is too short to waste on any such effort there. Just put it in a box, train your brain to demote it with regard to the time and energy you allocate to it, and move on to better alternatives.