@uncertainquark Yep, they probably will do just that. Honestly I just look at it in the way I would a physical space that I also don't like but is the only way to see certain people.

For me, there's no reason why I should have more control over that on the web than I do in the physical world; I know it feels like there should be more control but that emotion is in itself a trick my mind plays on a regular basis. I care more about seeing the people than being upset about the place.